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Is It Possible to Find A Woman who has The Perfect Package?
Does anyone believe there are men or woman who have the perfect package that are still single. Here is a description of a perfect package for a female > HOT, smart, ambitious, well dressed, wife material, able to cook, sensative, likes sports, likes kids, romantic, open minded? I think most of the ladies who have the perfect package are either taken, or have been cheated on so they have given up on men. Tell me what you think?
 
Computer Guy April 09, 2007 11:59AM

18 comments
I know it's cliche to say it, but you're going to be miserable if you're just looking for perfection, rather than someone who's perfect for you. But to the heart of your question, no, I don't think "all the good ones are taken." A few of my friends even satisfy your checklist (I don't cook, so I'm off).

Maybe it's a matter of where you're looking. Are you just waiting for someone to set you up, or are you actually meeting women whn you go out?

Also, do you think you're the perfect male package?

yesiamjess April 09, 2007 01:11PM
I go out but I am shy to talk to ladies (I am not a punk). I always aim high do the ladies I am attracted to are the ones that will never approach you, or send a signal. Setups are always nice as long as the person setting you up knows ur style.

Honestly without sounding cocky I am the perfect package now in my eyes. 3 years ago I would say no but now definitely. The only reason why I do not meet a lot of ladies is because in this day and age men do most of the approaching, so because it is hard for me to approach women they may never get to sample the package.

Computer Guy April 10, 2007 10:16AM
I think I'm a pretty damn good package and I'm not taken. Yeah, I've been cheated on, but I'm not jaded. Yes, I still think that I can find my "perfect" package. Maybe not to a tee, but pretty close. I honestly just think it's super hard meeting a decent, good looking man, that has a good job! If he is at least those things, he has a bunch of hang ups, or still wants to be a "player"... oh well.. hang in there, computer guy.

vivaglam222 April 10, 2007 11:12AM
So vivaglam222 what makes u such a good package? So ur telling me in order for a man to have a good package he has to have a good job? What part of the world do u reside so I can tell all the single guys that (have a good job) that vivaglam222 is single and has a banging package?

Computer Guy April 10, 2007 12:30PM
 
I don't know that I'd say a guy needs a "good job" -- but women like men that at least have some direction, or ambition, goals, whatever.


yesiamjess April 10, 2007 01:20PM
I think it is possible to find the perfect package.
I am single and fit everything YOU think is a perfect package. I have been cheated on but that only made me stronger and know what I DON'T want. Maybe that's why I am still single. I know what I DON'T want and will not settle. I am happy regardless! They say when you are not looking you will find that perfect someone. So be it! *covers eyes*
You will find her computer guy... just be patient :)

Debs April 10, 2007 07:30PM
Debs you have me curious now. "You fit everything that I consider as a perfect package? So how can I find out more about u, I mean on a innocent level?

Computer Guy April 10, 2007 09:11PM
You can ask me :) lildeb_21 at yahoo dot com

Debs April 11, 2007 12:57AM
Hi Debs pls check ur yahoo acct.

Computer Guy April 11, 2007 12:31PM
Part of the problem here is that good catches (men and women) are too busy doing the things that make them such good catches to hang around bars, clubs, coffee shops, or whatever, just to pick up on random people. Big cities are totally NOT conducive to dating because there's too much room for all the good catches to spread out, and there are too many places to go and try to find them.

I know why I'm still single-- I love my job, my friends, my family, cooking, catching the game, and reading up on interesting things, that I don't want to sacrifice good time on the faint chance of meeting someone decent out there on a random outing.

I'm banking my hopes on moving to the silicon valley in a few years where a lot of my friends are; that or going on match. At least dating websites help cut to the chase a bit in the 5 seconds it takes to read a profile (as opposed to the hour getting ready, 30 min driving, 30 min standing in line, 2 hrs talking to random people, etc. etc.)

zxcvbnm April 14, 2007 09:11PM
 
zxcybnm: You sound just like me.....are you a man or woman? ;-)


Tamollie42 April 28, 2007 02:28PM
guess... if i'm hoping to find myself in the silicon valley someday... that would probably make me a straight female. a straight, chronically single female in a city too big for its own good.

(and might we add, a little bitter? ;D)

zxcvbnm April 28, 2007 08:55PM

The older I get, the more I have a vision of what I want in a woman. I'm looking for the total package. I see each trait that I'm looking for as a bucket. The perfect woman would have all trait buckets filled, but the odds of find that woman are greatly diminished. Instead, some trait buckets may be filled more than others (some even overflowing), and there has to be a balance. Some traits if missing can be deal breakers, for me eyes are very very important. I don't mean they have to have eyes, I mean they have to have a certain type of eyes, and I can't really describe them, I just know when I see them.

Am I a good catch? Well I seem to think so. I realize I'm not perfect, but what sets me apart from most is that I'm always striving to improve myself.


BreadToast May 12, 2007 07:32PM
Alright, I don't know because I think I'm a pretty decent catch. I don't know if I qualify myself as H-O-T-T HOTT but I'm pretty cute. I get comments on my eyes and my smile (ok and my butt) all the time. I've been told that my capacity for caring for other people is a gift. I absolutely love kids. I've been told more than once that I am the happiest person someone has ever met. I go to a highly respected school. I watch sports, I play sports, I love to actually go to games (FENWAY!). I love to do nice things for people. But, I've only had one boyfriend, I've been single for a long time, and I'm rarely persued. So does that just make me "good friend" material? Cause I cannot get a decent guy to come after me or respond if I go after him.

dreamsincolor June 20, 2007 11:09AM
Well being too shy to approach the woman who might be the perfect package for you..might be a damper. I dont believe their is anyone who is perfect..for example, I am most of the things you listed except for a good cook...I havent had much experience. I wouldnt say I am HOT but I believe I am attractive. So...I guess I might be as close to perfect as there is LOL

ShrtSandra83 October 05, 2007 06:04PM
I heard an interesting guy (author) on Fresh Air talking about double-dating w/ his dad. He was gay, but his dad, a widower, was not, & in his 80's. The book is called Assisted Loving. (!) His dad asked him to help place ads and vet the women who answered. The son preferred waiting for perfection, but the dad preferred to "give everyone a chance." The short of it was the son learned from the father, and met someone online who was less-than-perfect. Happy endings all around.:D

JewelD June 01, 2008 01:49PM
 
Jewel,

Where do u get these stories from?

Computer Guy July 06, 2008 11:44PM
There is no perfect package! As women, we go through and do so much to attract men and keep men that we don't need the stress of "being perfect". Nobody's perfect, just perfect for someone who loves them unconditionally, flaws and all. I think I'm a pretty good catch(check yes to everything u listed), but my opinion, far from perfect. As good a catch I am, guys don't approach me! Guys tell me all the time (not trying to sound vain or anything) how sexy and beautiful I am, and yes, even perfect, however, they don't ask me out. I usually end up w/ the work-a-holics who want to put me on the shelf and take me down when they're ready to play w/me. So, we're not all taken. When it comes to dating, it's just as hard for those society deem as very attractive, attractive and average.

Chocolate July 08, 2008 05:45AM




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