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I have a lot of guy friends that are telling me it is hard now a days to find a good woman who wants to settle down. We all know for years men have been the ones that cheat and do not want to commit, but now I think things have changed. Woman seem to be gettig back at men for all the times they wanted a serious relationship but were dogged by men, so now they are like why should we settle down....we should have fun. From what I see men now want to settle down and have a family but woman want to play....age group maybe 26-32.
 
Computer Guy April 09, 2007 12:07PM

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I for one do not want to settle down. Computer guy, what's your deal? Did you just get your heart trampled on or something?

bballer April 10, 2007 12:02AM
Not at all bro I just think a lot. There are very few sites that allow u to express urself. I had the same mind set as you not wanting to settle when I was younger....a bit different now...take it easy!!

Computer Guy April 10, 2007 08:51AM
Hey that's cool. Was just curious. Your topics are good and they make me stop to think.

bballer April 10, 2007 09:41AM
I don't think that's the case at all. All I ever meet are a bunch of guys with Peter Pan syndrome. Pretty much all of the girls I know would LOVE to meet a nice guy, fall in love and get married. Women still want the fairytale. I know I do.
I think location may play a big part in your view. I mean.. if you live in Vegas, of course they don't want to settle down. Maybe you need to travel more :)

Debs April 10, 2007 07:43PM
Debs please tell me where I can find these kind of women? Where are you guys located? I have like 5 guy friends who are looking to settle down but are having a hard time.

Computer Guy April 10, 2007 09:04PM
They are all over I am sure! I live in CA (but I am from NY orig.. girls here are a bit different than I am used to). Most of my friends are transplants from somewhere else too. I only associate myself around good people. Maybe your just stuck in a dead end town... who knows. I can assure you there are plenty of good women left!

Debs April 11, 2007 01:02AM
Computer Guy, where are you looking for us? Maybe you do need to change things up....

Sassy Sarah April 16, 2007 02:32PM
Sassy I would not say I am going out there with the intentions to loopk because they say when you look you don't find. I am just basing it on what I see in my City the ladies are different now. I just would like to know where are all the good ladies at. Can you tell me since I assume you are good?

Computer Guy April 16, 2007 09:56PM
 
Don't be silly -- of course I'm good.

I don't know where you live but all the 'good ladies' are out and about and maybe the problem is that you should be out there looking for them.

Sassy Sarah April 17, 2007 09:14PM
I am from Toronto where are you from?

Computer Guy April 18, 2007 07:59AM
Yeah where are you looking? Are you going to a bar? If so, she probably thinks you arent ready to settle either. I know I dont do that bar scene because I dont want a guy who wants to go out every night. I want him to know that I am past that and want to settle down. I guess maybe you should check to see where you are trying to meet the right girl.

ShrtSandra83 October 05, 2007 06:09PM
This reminds me of the (true) story I heard of the guy who wanted a perfect couch, and a perfect woman. He drove his friends and roommates crazy on his endless search for both. In the meantime, he lived with a threadbare couch, and nixed one girlfriend after another. He still has the threadbare couch, (no girlfriend) but at least has the good humor to laugh at himself. :)

JewelD June 01, 2008 01:53PM
 
JewelD,

Can you please tell me what you mean?

Computer Guy July 06, 2008 11:40PM




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