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C,
You're probably asking the men out there. But from my experience, our gut instinct is usually right. If you don't think he'll break your heart, odds are he will. So you might as well ask him directly, to save you the time and the delayed agony.
And if he gives you the answer you want, than you'll feel so much better anyway!
SkyDiamond May 21, 2007 06:48PM |
Is it possible to you just be in the moment and enjoy the relationship for what it is now? Maybe you're both not ready for the "big" talk just yet. When he's ready to let you know what's on his mind, he'll find a way.
AdamG May 22, 2007 12:27AM |
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I totally appreciate what you have said... and I'm considering what you have said. I'm going to enjoy the relationship for now ... but can i ask you something?
When does a woman know what stage the relationship is at if men don't say anything :( ????
Confused :( May 22, 2007 04:37PM |
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Such is the mystery of the relationship "game." Actually, if you guys are at each other's places most nights, that's a good sign. Men don't take moving in with each other lightly. But if you feel like you're being ignored or not treated "right", you're probably on to something.
AdamG May 24, 2007 10:17AM |
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Thanks.... I think I'll stick to staying single... less confussion
Confused :( May 25, 2007 08:18AM |
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Also, I think it's important to ask yourself what YOUR feelings are for HIM.
tulip May 22, 2007 02:51PM |
Wow ... never really thought of it in the way you guys stated above. Thanks for the advise. So maybe I should wait and c what happens?
I forgot to mention something :( ....We're moving in together in fairly soon. As room mates ... but we are closer as i said before. It's as if we've been dating (unofficially) ....
I really appreciate all your input... so please ... let me know if this changes things. Should I continue to "let things flow" so to speak?
Confused :( May 22, 2007 04:34PM |
It definitely complicates things to move in with him! Do you have to?
At some point all of this will play out. I don't know if it makes a difference whether you find out how he feels before or after you move in together.
tulip May 22, 2007 05:18PM |
I have to move in with him. It's a little complicated. I'm not worried about us moving in together. I think it's important that I straighten out what type of relationship he wants to have.
I am not the type of person to wait around for something when there are so many oppurtunities around each corner I turn. :( .....
Am i the only woman in this world that always choses the hard way ???
:(
Confused :( May 22, 2007 08:56PM |
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i agree with tulip -- it definitely complicates things to move in with him (yikes!) but if you are going to go ahead with it, you should definitely figure out what's going on between you two before that happens.
awkward dating is bad but awkward living situations are the pits.
Sassy Sarah May 28, 2007 10:04AM |
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Date other men.
Also: read: the art of the love affair.
Good stuff. :P
JewelD June 01, 2008 02:00PM |
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whoops -
correct title is: the technique of the love affair
xo
JewelD June 01, 2008 09:14PM |
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PS - if you want to date him, do not move in with him.
Just my 2 cents.
Good luck. :)
JewelD June 01, 2008 02:01PM |
