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I think I may've been flirting with my friend's girlfriend last weekend. A little background: they've only been seeing each other a couple weeks and he's a nice guy, but not a close close friend. We play on the same team in a league and have some friends in common, more than anything else.

A group of us went out for drinks and she and I got into a pretty deep conversation on our own, but not in private, everyone was still around us. Maybe it was the beer, but I thought there was a connection and I couldn't stop thinking about her all weekend.

Do I:
a) let is pass since "pals before gals"?

b) see if there's really something there with her and maybe be upfront and bring it up to my friend (although that seems like a stupid idea)

c) initiate a secret affair that will end badly eventually

d) keep surfing MySpace for one-nighters (just kidding!)

Advice?
 
Razz September 12, 2007 11:44PM

3 comments
e) Wait it out a little, and see if there really is a two-way connection and not simply a flirty drunken evening before you make any move.

yesiamjess September 14, 2007 01:00AM
You're not scum... yet. I think Jess is on to something though! Wait it out because this seems like a sign that this other couple isn't going to last too long anyway. I don't know if you want to be in the middle of all that when it hits the fan, and I don't know if you're going to be able to make a clean move at that point anyway, but best to be safe. He's your buddy, right???

cowboygal September 16, 2007 09:22PM
 
Thanks to you both. I decided on b) but I didn't need to mention anything to my friens, since it turned out there wasn't anything to it. So it seems that I'm not scum after all.

Razz September 24, 2007 09:57PM




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