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What's the best way to detach from someone you care about too much?
I recently met someone who I get along with really well, and I've fallen pretty hard for him. The problem is, he's not interested in having a girlfriend. I don't want to just stop seeing him completely, because he's become one of my best friends, but at the same time I find it hard to not want more from him when I'm around him. Any suggestions?
 
Valkyrie November 19, 2007 03:15PM

2 comments
That's not an easy one. One thing to keep in mind is that guys often say they don't want a girlfriend, but we really don't know what we want. But even if he is certain, there's no reason to stop seeing him. He's a close friend and it'd be a waste to lose that. Especially if later, when you fall for another guy and stop having feelings for this friend, or if the timing becomes better for you both later on to try a romantic relationship.

Bridger November 21, 2007 09:01AM
So far everyone I've talked to has pretty much said the same thing. Since I don't want to lose the friendship I have with him, and since no one has given me a good reason not to, I'll continue to see him and enjoy the time I have with him. Thank you for your response. :)

Valkyrie November 24, 2007 02:05PM




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